Gifts Aren’t to Be Paid Back, They’re to Be Paid Forward

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We are all familiar with the phrase ‘Pay it Forward,’ whether because you read the book, watched the movie, or have just paid attention.

I encourage you to join millions of people around the world to celebrate International Pay it Forward Day – Friday, April 28th. This day is recognized by over 70 countries and over 50 state and city proclamations, it is a celebration of creating a huge ripple of kindness throughout the world through small, sometimes random, acts of kindness to strangers.

By paying it forward, one person and one seemingly small act can make a meaningful impact in the lives of many. The sum is greater than the parts. You can’t do everything, but you can do something.

Below is a list of ideas. Please use them throughout the year to spread a little joy. Most cost nothing, but could mean the world to someone.

  1. Hold the door open for the person behind you.
  2. Clean out all your old clothes and donate them to someone in need.  Your old is someone else’s new.
  3. Donate blood.  One pint of blood can save up to three lives.  Locate your nearest blood drive.
  4. Share your umbrella with a stranger on a rainy day.
  5. Check up on someone who looks lonely.
  6. Let someone with only a few items cut you in line at the grocery store.
  7. Stop and buy a drink from a kid’s lemonade stand.
  8. If you shop online, make your purchase through Give Back America or Amazon Smile.
  9. Drop off your old eye glasses at your local LensCrafters as a donation to the OneSight
  10. Redirect gifts.  Instead of having people give you birthday and holiday gifts, ask them to donate gifts or money to a good cause.
  11. Offer your seat to someone when there aren’t any left. (You can’t always see pain.)
  12. Hug a friend. Just because.
  13. Send a nice email or handwritten card to someone you know, unexpectedly.
  14. Leave encouraging post-it notes in library books and other random places.
  15. If you see a couple taking a self-pic, offer to take the picture for them.
  16. Donate cat and dog food to an animal shelter, as well as old towels or blankets.
  17. If there’s been an accident or a potentially hazardous situation presents itself on the road, report it to the local authorities.  Your phone call could save a life.
  18. When you’re getting fast food, buy an extra meal for a homeless person.
  19. Compliment the first three people you talk to today.
  20. Send a positive text message to five people right now.
  21. Leave quarters at the laundromat.
  22. Leave unused coupons next to the corresponding products in the grocery store.
  23. Leave a great server the biggest tip you can afford.
  24. Stand up for someone. Lend your voice.
  25. When someone wants to repay you for something, ask them to pay it forward.

Have you ever been the recipient of a random act of kindness? Feel free to share your stories and ideas to pay it forward.

Hope in the Valley

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I am pleased to announce that Valley Hope Counseling Center is one of the newest recipients of Win Win for a Cause donations. At the close of every sale, my clients will have the opportunity to choose Valley Hope to receive a portion of my commission instead of a traditional closing gift.

Valley Hope Counseling Center is a United Way agency and has provided affordable, quality mental health care for the residents of Waynesboro, Staunton, and Augusta County since 1997. Their staff of trained counselors work with patients of all ages and income levels and are committed to the principle that quality care is of greater importance than financial gain.

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The important issues they address include anxiety and depression, relationships, domestic violence, sexual abuse and recovery, substance abuse, eating disorders, parenting, issues, grief and loss, and more. In addition to individual therapy, they also offer some group therapy, including anger management. This vital service helps clients cope with life issues and address them in a healthy way, allowing them to lead more productive lives – affecting more than just individuals, benefiting our entire community.

Valley Hope is hosting a Yoga for Hope benefit event October 1st  at Birdseed YOGA at 504 West Main Street. There will be yoga classes from 9a.m to 3p.m. for all ages and skill levels. 100% of the proceeds go to helping Valley Hope continue their amazing work. Hope to see you there!

Please visit Valley Hope Counseling Center’s website for more information about this wonderful organization and the services they provide in our community.

Who Made the List? Newest Recipients Chosen!

Earlier in the month, I challenged my readers to help me pay it forward by nominating local non-profits to be the next recipient of Win Win for a Cause donations. I am pleased to say that we received multiple nominations for deserving charities in our area who are making a positive difference in the lives of our neighbors. 

Instead of choosing just one to add to the list of current Win Win for a Cause recipients, I chose them all. The nominations received were all for wonderful organizations doing meaningful work that serves our community in different areas. The next Win Win for a Cause recipients my clients can choose include mental health and counseling services, grass roots organizations challenging injustices, adult day care resources, a non-profit fighting pediatric cancer, and more.

I created Win Win for a Cause to give back to the community and allow my clients to do the same through an alternative to the traditional closing gift. A portion from my commission of closed real estate transactions is donated to a charity or non-profit of the client’s choosing within 30 days of closing.

To see a full list of current Win Win recipients (including our newest!) click here. Over the next several weeks, we will highlight the individual organizations and the work they are doing to improve the lives of others. We are so thankful for their efforts and I look forward to letting my clients share in the joy of giving back to our community.

 

 

Help Choose the Next Win Win for a Cause Recipient!

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Do you know of a charity or non-profit making a positive impact in The Valley? Help me choose the next addition to the already amazing group of local charities that benefit from Win Win for a Cause donations by leaving a comment.

For any readers new to my endeavor, I created Win Win for a Cause to give back to the community and, hopefully, encourage others to do the same. I vowed to give a portion from my commission of closed real estate transactions to a charity or non-profit of the client’s choosing within 30 days of closing.

I feel that I can make our world a better place. Through Win Win for a Cause, I want my clients to experience that feeling as well. These donations give my clients the opportunity to support a cause that is near and dear to their hearts.

Recipients so far this year include AHIP, Wildlife Center of Virginia, WARM, and the Augusta Regional SPCA. For a full list of current recipients, click here. Scroll through my recent posts to learn more about some of these organizations.

This is your time to bring another charity into the spotlight. Nominate one (or many) of your favorite groups making a difference in the lives of others. As always, I encourage everyone to Pay it Forward through acts of kindness to effect change in the world.

I want to be MORE than your REALTOR… I want you to WIN WIN for a cause.

Who would you like to see join the list?

Add your nominee(s) in the comment section below the title.

Voices of Hope and Healing

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SARA is another local organization doing truly extraordinary work and one that I am so proud to offer my client’s the choice of supporting through a Win Win for a Cause donation from my commission. Their vision is a community free from sexual violence is one we can all rally behind.

The mission of the Sexual Assault Resource Agency (SARA) is to eliminate sexual violence  impact by providing education, advocacy and support to men, women and children.

Each year they reach approximately 550 survivors and 1,100 students, as well as hundreds more through community outreach and prevention programs. SARA is fully accredited through the Virginia Sexual and Domestic Violence Action Alliance, the only such sexual assault crisis agency in this service area, and has been providing services to the community for over 40 years.

Located in Charlottesville, Virginia, SARA serves residents of Charlottesville, Albemarle, Nelson, Louisa, Fluvanna and Greene. They serve anyone who has personally experienced, or cares for someone who has experienced any kind of sexual violence, including rape, sexual assault, sexual abuse, sexual molestation, incest, sex trafficking, stalking, sexual harassment or unwanted touching.

Services are provided free to all survivors, regardless of race, gender, sexual orientation, gender expression or identity, age, economic status, education, parenthood, physical and/or mental abilities, national origin, immigration/documentation status or any other status.

Support Services Include:

24-Hour Crisis Hotline – free, confidential, 24-hour support to survivors, their families and friends, allied professionals, and the public.

Therapy – free and confidential therapy for men, women, and children of all ages who have been affected by sexual violence.

Emergency Room Advocacy -SARA staff members are on call 24 hours every day of the year to accompany sexual assault survivors in the UVA Emergency Room. ER Advocates offer support to the survivor, help to address urgent needs, and ensure that survivors understand their rights and their options.

Additional support services include Legal System Advocacy, Support Groups, Therapeutic Horse and Farm Camp for Young Girls, Counseling and Advocacy for Non-Offending Parents and Families of Abused Children.

Prevention

In an effort to reduce the epidemic of sexual abuse, SARA also provides programs to prevent anyone in our community from becoming a perpetrator of sexual violence.

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SARA’s community education and training efforts increase public awareness about the impact of sexual violence, promote community involvement, foster a multi-disciplinary systems approach to victims of sexual violence, and challenge the prevailing attitudes and dispel the myths which perpetuate the problem of sexual violence. SARA offers free specialized training, workshops and sexual violence prevention programming to the general public, as well as professional groups and individuals in Charlottesville, Albemarle, Fluvanna, Greene, Louisa and Nelson counties.

There are several ways to help this vital organization achieve and maintain its goals.

A donation of time or money can mean all the difference in the world to a survivor living through one of the worst events of their life.

Donations

 $20 keeps the hotline running for a day.

 $30 provides a new set of clothes for a victim seen at the ER whose clothes are collected as evidence.

 $125 provides a therapy session for a child or adult victim of sexual violence.

 $150 provides a full day of prevention programming to a local school.

Volunteer

Join their team as a Volunteer Hotline Advocate or Community Outreach Volunteers.

By funding these positions, you are supporting a fundamental change in our community, where survivors of sexual violence are supported and heal well, and where the next generation stops sexual violence before it starts.

Is there a local charity you would like to see join the Win Win for a Cause list?

Building for the Future

BGF constructBuilding Goodness Foundation (BGF) is a nonprofit construction organization based in Charlottesville, Virginia. Each year, BGF helps build and renovate structures for nonprofits doing great things in local communities both in the US and abroad.  I am proud to say that Building Goodness Foundation is one of the local groups supported through Win Win for a Cause donations.

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They connect skilled volunteers from the design and construction industries with high-impact nonprofit organizations in need of new or renovated space. Local volunteers are coordinated to design and build structures for non-profits, including health clinics, birthing centers, women’s clinics, schools and community venues.

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BGF often reduces the cost of U.S. partners’ capital projects by as much as half. This allows a nonprofit’s scarce funding to be funneled back into their life-affirming services.

They also provide critically-needed housing repairs for several low-income U.S. families each year.

International

BGF successfully builds structures for partners in some of the poorest nations in the world.

Through a Field Manager living on site, BGF collaborates with a partner NGO to design and build a needed structure, while employing and training local workers in the construction process, side-by-side with volunteers.

The above-average wages paid to local workers in these communities contribute positive economic impacts on areas in dire need.

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Help them build communities and improve lives

BFG’s specialty is placing design and construction professionals in volunteer roles that play to their strengths, but they welcome volunteers of all skill sets and backgrounds. Find out how you can help them make a lasting impact where it most needed.

 

 

 

 

“If you can’t feed 100 people, then feed just one.”

 

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Helping those who are not (currently) able to help themselves is an incredibly important service. This week I am so pleased to bring attention to The Disciples Kitchen – the very first recipient of a Win Win for a Cause Donation.

The Disciples Kitchen in Waynesboro, VA is a local soup kitchen open to individuals and families in need of a hot meal. Since opening its doors in September 2007, Disciples Kitchen has served almost 80,000 meals.  They are one of the deserving, local charities my clients can designate for their Win Win donation from the sale or purchase of a home.

Four days a week, The Disciples Kitchen staff and volunteers provide warm meals to local residents. Averaging about 45 diners per meal, they are served Monday, Tuesday and Thursday from 11:30 am to 12:15 pm in the Fellowship Hall of 2nd Presbyterian Church at 133 Delphine Avenue (entrance to the kitchen is at the rear of the church off Commerce Avenue).  Breakfast is served each Saturday from 10:00 to 10:45 a.m. at Basic United Methodist Church on the corner of 5th & Delphine. All meals are served free-of-charge to anyone in need.

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Disciples Kitchen is a non-denominational ministry sponsored by more than 30 churches and organizations and close to 250 active volunteers.  The goal of the program is to share what so many of us have, and probably take for granted, by providing a hot, nutritious meal free-of-charge to anyone who needs it. 

The group is appreciative of donations and volunteer resources to help provide warm meals for their neighbors.

For further information, please visit How You Can Help or contact them directly at (540) 943-3211.

How do you plan to volunteer your time?